Be the Love You Desire in Your Life

Be The Love You Desire
Be The Love You Desire

LEARN HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU DESIRE

Do you want a loving relationship, but can’t find the perfect partner?

Are you already in a relationship yet feel unhappy, dissatisfied or unloved?

Would you like to know how to attract more love and intimacy into your life?

 

“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”
 ~ Eden Ahbez, American Songwriter

To Be the Love You Desire in Your Life, begin by writing down your answers to the following questions:
  • How do I know that I’m loved, and what does ‘being love’ mean to me?
  • What are the qualities and values I want in an intimate partner?
  • Do I possess and express these same qualities and values?
  • Or, am I seeking an intimate partner to fill an emptiness or lack I perceive in myself?
    Imagine that you are the intimate partner you desire to attract.
  • Ask yourself, if I were them, would I love me?
  • Do I repel or reject, rather than attract the intimacy and love I desire?
You are Invited to Explore the Following Essential Steps for Attracting Healthy, Happy, Loving Relationships and Being the Love You Desire and Deserve.
What are the negative thoughts and behaviors that prevent you from attracting the love you desire?

Thoughts that are governed by fear, anxiety, guilt, blame, shame, distrust, judgments, excuses, self-deception, expectations, and other negative self-talk and emotions emit energetic vibrations that repel others. To become a magnet for love, it is essential to let go of negativity and allow your unconditionally loving nature to emerge.

How to begin releasing patterns that repel love and intimacy.

On an 8″ x 11″ sheet of paper, create two columns by drawing a vertical line down the middle. Label the left hand column Negative Beliefs to Release, and the right hand column, Affirmations for Positive Outcomes.

1. List your negative thoughts, behaviors and beliefs in the left column.
A negative belief might be, “I can’t have love in my life because I’m too old and nobody wants me.”

2. Create a positive affirmation for each negative in the right column.
A positive affirmation might be, “I am now attracting my perfect intimate partner who loves me just as I am.”

Complete your lists, then look at each affirmation for similarities to others. Combine them to create a total of three to five affirmations.

Write each positive affirmation on a 3″ x 5″ index card. Post these cards where you can read them at least three times daily for the next 28 days.

Speak your affirmations aloud as you gaze into your own eyes in a mirror (a perfect place to post your affirmations). This is a powerful way to embody these messages and create positive transformation. Do this three to five times daily for maximum results.

As you release beliefs that no longer serve your highest good, it’s important to also forgive everyone who helped you create negativity in your life, including…and especially…yourself.

When you affirm self-love daily, you will naturally become more loving, compassionate, accepting, forgiving, and even more beautiful. Then, you too can honestly say, I AM LOVE!

With focused attention, intention and practice, you will begin to attract the love you desire in your life.

A version of this post was previously published as part of a collaborative blog,”How to Attract Healthy Love” on loveevolveandthrive.com 

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Can You Imagine Being a Heart-Centered Love Catalyst?

Pleasure or Pain?  The Choice is Ours!

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In case you have yet figured it out yet from my posts on facebook, I’m not one who is into pain, anger, hatred, guilt, shame, blame and fear and other negative emotions. In order to be true to myself and my purpose in life, I focus on living from heart and striving for a state of peace, joy, abundance and love. I find that I am now able to achieve and maintain this inner peace most of the time.

However, being human and still learning to live in my divinity, I am as yet unable to sustain a peaceful state in perpetuity. Even so, to be in integrity with my higher self, I am ever expanding my consciousness with that intention. I enjoy my daily life and precious relationships, as I strive to create “heaven on earth,” for myself, and those whose lives I share.

I like to imagine a reality where the most prosperous among us measure their wealth by the amount of love, joy and pleasure they experience and share everyday. Instead of selfishly hoarding their treasures, each individual compassionately and wholeheartedly shares their wealth with others. Everyone looks for ways to help those who are ready to release past negativity, poverty thinking, pain, suffering and indiscretions. They offer a helping hand to those who are taking leaps of faith with the intention of landing in the world of abundance thinking, a world in which everyone is unconditionally loved, valued, appreciated and respected no matter how much innate talent or material wealth they already possess.

What if those of us who have chosen the healing arts as a way of life, become the mentors for those who wish to archive as history the outmoded punishment society that has thrived on greed, fear, guilt, blame and shame. Can you envision a world where co-creation, cooperation and collaboration are the models for relating with others both intimately and in business…at all levels of society…and where those levels coalesce into the oneness of Spirit our hearts desire? I can! And, in my heart, that’s where I choose to live.

Are you ready for a world like that? If so, why not claim your freedom and become a heart-centered love catalyst today? From the center of your being, simply imagine that you can expand to include others by reaching out to as many as are willing to share their wealth and expand as well…to include even more and more beings in our Universal Family of Love. Until, one day the world is fully awake, fully in-love and living consciously from heart. I just know that this vision is within the realm of possibility. According to Napolean Hill, a mentor to many of us, “Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

And, my favorite quote of all time from Johann Wolfgang von Goethe . . .

“Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it.”

Attached to my key ring is a brass fob with the words, “Anything is Possible if You Believe.” I’ve carried this with me for almost 30 years, so for me, this vision isn’t new. It’s real and embodied in my heart and soul.

John Lennon expresses this vision well, in his song, Imagine.  For some beautiful memories and inspiration in this moment, please enjoy!

Namaste,

Elizabeth

 

 

A Fresh Start . . . for 2016 and Beyond

Welcome to Empatherapy (formerly Elizabeth Powers Empatherapy)

So much has happened in my life since my return to Northern California in June of 2012. The internet service where I was living for the past almost four years was undependable and frequently I’d loose connection. Consequently, I was unable in good conscience, to continue seeing clients online. Therefore, I made the choice to focus on personal needs, wants and desires in various aspects of my life.

It’s been a time for self-exploration and relationships, reconnecting with the various communities and friends I’d missed while living in the Pacific Northwest for almost 20 years. I dove in deeply and expanded my knowledge of the art of Tantra and added Erotic Hypnosis to my skill set. I also connected more deeply with my personal energy through Biodanza (The Dance of Life) classes, and learned new technologies from Network for New Culture events on how to live in conscious, loving and co-creative community.

For those of you who were familiar with my previous website, www.elizabethpowersempatherapy.com, you’ll still be able to find me. I have carried forward my old blog posts, as some of the articles are of value to share with new viewers. My new website is now simply named www.empatherapy.com and focuses primarily on learning the skills for clear and conscious communication, and for creating dynamic and powerful relationships with self and others.

In addition to offering private Life Mastery sessions for individuals, I plan to hosting webinars, and offer classes, workshops and events both in my local community and online using an interactive live video format.

If you have any questions or suggestions, please feel free to contact Elizabeth. Please be respectful when leaving comments. Relate your messages only to the specific blog articles posted as all else will be considered spam and removed.

 

Welcome to My World!

I’m Elizabeth Powers, and for the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing with you vignettes from my life…experiences that have helped to create the person that I am today. My intention is that you might glean for yourself some useful tidbits from the valuable lessons I’ve learned on my journey. The trip hasn’t always been easy, but it’s definitely been worth every moment of the ride.

I often feel as though I’ve lived many different lifetimes within the years I’ve thus far been given. If variety is the spice of life, then my experiences definitely qualify as rich and flavorful. Even the distasteful ones have been ingested as prescribed, and like bitter herbs, have served to help me grow stronger.

Some of the stories will be told in writing and others through video as some are easier to write and others to speak. I want to get to know you and have you know me from the warmth of my heart to the depth of my soul. I encourage comments and questions. I’d love to interact with you and will respond to your inquiries with love.

In love, joy and abundance,

Elizabeth